Relationships

The Secret of Love

 

We all want to be loved and feel loved, this is our core need. My definition of love is connecting on a deeper level within our core with oneself or another in a relationship. A relationship is when two people support, inspire, and encourage each other to be the best version of themselves that they can be,  according to Mathew Kelly, The Seven Levels of Intimacy.  This is the purpose of our lives we just look for love in all the wrong places; in outward "things"  and others rather than within ourselves where the pure love is waiting for us to tap into it. This means we have to love ourselves first before we can love others and we can only love others as much as we love ourselves.

This love we all so want is unconditional and not just for our partnerships  but with everyone we come into contact with. We never emotionally connect with anyone but stay on shallow levels which is never enough for us to feel loved. We settle for physical connection, give up on ever feeling loved, self deceive to excuse isolating from relationships, all to avoid the emotional connection and our perceived pain and futility. We limit ourselves and settle for less in our relationships never accepting the pure, unconditional love within us waiting to be released.

If you want better  relationships and to grow into your best version of yourself in love rather than fear and anger, then let me assist you in your journey to finding who you are and the potential of you.  We either come from fear or love and love makes for a better life and world. When we change and become more loving the people around us have to change their reactions to us as the law of attraction states.

Diana E Cohen