We perceive everything in life out of fear and the need to protect ourselves from rejection and not being enough. Everything is outward, the external rather than inward within ourselves. We focus outwardly looking for others to give us validation and worth rather than giving it to ourselves; we diminish our worth. We are our own worst enemy until we choose to replace the old patterns with new perceptions based on positivity and love rather than negativity and fear. We must accept that everything we've believed to be the truth so far is lies to protect us.The most fearful thing to us is Change; it threatens us because it is unproven and unknown. If we change our perception of change to being in our best interest and safe we no longer need to control everything to keep us safe. We open the door to the world of Consciousness and Abundance in all relationships, happiness, growth, and opportunities.